Character is complex…..how do u judge

Auntie Sarah

Can u judge who is the better person out of these 3?
Mr A – He had frienship with bad politicians, consults astrologers, two wives, chain smoker, drinks eight to 10 times a day.
Mr B – He was kicked out of office twice, sleeps till noon, used opium in college & drinks whiskey every evening.
Mr C – He is a decorated war hero,a vegetarian, doesn’t smoke , doesn’t drink  and never cheated on his wife.
You would want Mr.C rite? But..
Mr. A was Franklin Roosevelt!
Mr. B was Winston Churchill!!
Mr C Was ADOLF HITLER!!! Strange but true..Its risky to judge anyone by his habits !Character is a complex phenomenon.So every person in ur life is important ,don’t judge them ,accept them.
Three beautiful thoughts 
1. None can destroy iron, but its own rust can! Likewise, none can destroy a person, but his own mindset can.
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Felt like sharing

Ojonoka Zekeri Abikiaje

Couldn’t stop myself from forwarding this Excellent message …

A bus full of passengers was traveling while. suddenly the weather changed and there was a huge downpour and lightening all around.

They could see that the lightening would appear to come towards the bus and then go elsewhere.

After 2 or 3 horrible instances of being saved from lightening, the driver stopped the bus about fifty feet away from a tree and said –

“We have somebody in the bus whose death is a certainty today.”

Because of that person everybody else will also get killed today.

Now listen carefully what I am saying ..

I want each person to come out of bus one by one and touch the tree trunk and come back.

Whom so ever death is certain will get caught up by the lightening and will die & everybody else will be saved”.

They had to…

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POSITIVE ATTITUDE

POSIWORLD'S BLOG

Positive attitude is the cause of success and happiness. Positive attitude helps you cope more easily with the daily affairs of life. It brings optimism into your life, and makes it easier to avoid worries and negative thinking. If you adopt it as a way of life, it will bring constructive changes into your life, and makes them happier, brighter and more successful. With a positive attitude you see the bright side of life, become optimistic, and expect the best to happen. It is certainly a state of mind that is well worth developing.

Attitude is everything. Attitude determines success or failure. Lazy people do not make an effort because they believe God will do it. Pessimistic people think it’s all going to go wrong. Technophobic people think that the Internet is difficult to use. Non-commercial people think that earning money is immoral because money is the root of all…

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Why Life Seems Unfair

Ojonoka Zekeri Abikiaje

One of the most popular movie in the world is Titanic which ends in a tragedy. Many will say life is unfair, just when Jack and Rose found love the sea snatches it away. Also heard the story of Concord? The fastest plane in the world that crashed. Someone’s great invention and hard Labour slipped through his hands just like that. Let me bring you closer home, have you read so hard, decided not to cheat in the exams or test and at the end of the day you failed or didn’t do well while others who you think didn’t study like you did or cheated did well in the exams? Many say “life is unfair”  and some go far to saying “God is unfair”.

What we forget is that many things we do decide the outcome of an event. The Titanic and the Concord had something in common, they…

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In love, everyone needs to be “masculine” & “feminine”…

Desirable Love

I had always been extremely extroverted, an overachiever, a triple A+ personality type, extraordinarily (materially) successful (even in my early twenties), blah, blah, blah… I was very “yang”. However, my marriage to my childhood sweetheart was an absolute mess! My husband was uncomfortable with my increasing success… No matter how much I tried to save our marriage, sadly our marriage was lost…

As time went on, my personality seemed to only attract alpha (yang) males. However, once in a committed relationship, they did everything in their (mighty) power to snuff out my light, always wanting the limelight for themselves & expecting me to take a backseat to their lives. After a while I thought I must have been doing something wrong.

I thought that I simply needed to work harder at practicing unconditional love. I had been researching psychology, philosophies, physiology, eastern philosophy, religion…. And, as we often do when…

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I want to walk on water

It all starts with 1 step

To Know Christ, make Him known & help others do the same

walking on water

We have all heard the story the disciple of Jesus who walked on water. Other than Jesus he is the only other person to have walked on water even though at some point he shifted his focus from Jesus and started sinking.
The point is.. he did walk on water. And this is because he took a step. He tried it out. He took an initiative. There were other disciples on the boat but it was only Peter who took initiative and stepped out of the boat. The other disciples am sure were left wondering what if? …if only…but not for Peter.
In life those that succeed are those that take a step…take an initiative ..not just sitting and waiting. One of the people i respect and hope to emulate in this country is the CEO of Safaricom Bob Collymore who said and i quote,”In Kenya we have a lot…

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